My grandson recently wrote about his disappointment in President Obama.
It is because Obama is backing down on the Don’t ask don’t tell policy in the military, he won’t suspend the ejection of Gay military members pending revision of the policy. He CAN do that as Commander in chief. He also does not support gay marriage, and in other issues he is expanding the war in Afganistan. This is not what I voted for.
Oh, and plus he is totally waffling on the issue of Torture in the Bush admin. He did admit water boarding is torture, and that we do not torture, but he is trying to protect the lower level officials by using the Nazi-apologist excuse that they were “just following orders”. Obama is FAST losing his moral standing.
I can understand the disappointments. I am so pleased with all the things Obama has accomplished, especially in view of the messes we are in and that don’t stop coming. I’ve been watching some of the Senate committee meetings on Health Care and Environmental Protection Budgeting, and it looks like they are taking him seriously. There certainly isn’t the acrimony and in-fighting I’ve seen in the past over these issues, not that it might not start up again.
I don’t understand why he didn’t clear away the don’t ask, don’t tell issue with the stroke of a pen in the first few days like he did so many other things. Gay marriage is something else - a much more devisive issue, and I think it needs more debate because the country is so split on it. I have the answer, of course, but no one’s listening to me. In my opinion, marriage is a religious concept, in many religions it is a sacrament. The government should have no say in who gets married to whom and should leave that up to the churches. However, the forming of a family unit is also a legal or secular issue, providing benefits, legal responsibilities, tax consequences, etc. So I think anyone who wants those benefits, and wants to take on those responsibilities should be able to have a civil union sanctioned by the government. Marriage, should they want it, would be handled by their religious institution. It seems so obvious, I don’t understand why no one is discussing it. However, my feelings about it are that it’s still going to take time, but that we are getting there a lot more rapidly than I would have imagined a few years ago. Fortunately, the alternatives are growing every day - with more and more states opening up to gay marriage. I know two men who recently went to California to get married. Well, not too recently, but before the marriage law was rescinded.
I’m disappointed that the war in Afghanistan is being expanded, but that was part of Obama’s campaign, and though I didn’t like the idea at the time, I believed in most everything else Obama stood for. In this recent election, he was the only choice available for me.
Also, Obama is going to make mistakes, I can only hope his good decisions outweigh his bad ones, both in consequence and in number. So far, he gets high grades from me.